Keep in mind you don’t need to define yourself as one of the following body types to have a fulfilling gay relationship.This being said, if you’re floating around on your favorite dating site (AllMale for example) then you’ll know exactly what these terms mean.

The OtterĪn Otter is a really hairy guy but is relatively thin. He may be hairy because he’s an artist who is too lazy to care or he’s trying to achieve hipster status. This is the gay man that you can find in an art loft with a bottle of wine spilled on his thrift store carpet, he has holes in his skinny jeans and in his vans. Like the otter, a wolf is hairy but these guys have a bit of muscle and tend to be more agressive. They probably still hang around hipsters but you can see them tearing up a skate park or on the opposite end their hair is perfectly coiffed and they spend time trimming their hair to still be there but to be absolutely suitable. The Bearīears are typically heavy, hairy lovable gays. They’re most likely seem like the guy next door and like to sip on a beer and cook delicious food while listening to metal music.

Bears are loved by everyone and they’re not the typical gay best friend but more like the best friend that you want to chug back shots of whiskey with.